Faith, Love, & Welcome: A Discussion about Sexuality and Gender Identity For Parents and Guardians –
April 9th – Madison campus
April 10th – Verona campus
6:20-7:20 p.m. / 8:00 p.m.
While your child is at confirmation for the evening, join with fellow parent of teens, Shannon Kunstman to talk about love, inclusion, and acceptance of our LGBTQ siblings and children as we explore thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and experiences.
6:20-7:20 p.m. will be gathering, story-sharing, question-asking, and silence. If you have more private questions or concerns, you can stick around to ask/chat more with Shannon from 7:30-8 p.m.
If that night doesn’t work for you or you’d like a more private conversation, you can sign up for a one-on-one conversation with one of the RIC members (a variety of dates and times) or Becca on Thursday, April 18th (time and location decided by you). Sign up for a one-on-one here.
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If this is uncharted territory for you, know that you are welcome to join in the conversation and you don’t have to feel “late to the party.”
Sign-up for One-on-One discussions
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The one-on-one discussions are available for those who desire a more private setting for conversation. Consider signing up to meet with a member of the RIC Task Force. We are happy to answer questions about the Reconciling in Christ process, where Good Shepherd is in the process and why it’s important. We will listen, answer questions and pray together.
You are welcome to sign up as an individual or with a partner/spouse/friend. Click here to sign-up
Queer Eye Screening & Discussion:
“God Bless Gay”
Join us to watch Mama Tammye, a devoutly religious woman with a gay son and a giving heart. We will witness the journey of Mama Tammye and her community as they explore what it means to love as Jesus taught us to love. This touching Christian story encompasses relationships, hospitality, race, gender, acceptance, exclusion and healing.
Two opportunities to participate are available:
Sunday March 31, 11:45 a.m. – 1:15 p.m., Verona Campus Worship Center & Lobby
or Sunday April 7, 11:15 a.m. – 12:45 p.m., Madison Campus Sanctuary
Snacks and childcare will be provided
Contact Pastor Dara Schuller-Hanson with questions: firstname.lastname@example.org or 608-271-6633
Adult Study: Dialogues On: Sexuality
This class has ended. If your small group is interested in study materials please contact Pastor Dara Schuller-Hanson, email@example.com
You are invited to participate in “Dialogues On: Sexuality”, a 4-session study led by Pastor Dara Schuller-Hanson and sponsored by the Reconciling in Christ Task Force. Topics will include: “What are people of God called to do”? “What does it mean to be a Welcoming Church”? “Language, Identity and the Power of Words”. We will engage in conversation about race, gender and sexuality and learn how to respectfully converse with our peers. Through discussion we will grow in community and relationship with each other.
Our individual and collective discussion will determine what kind of welcome we create here at Good Shepherd.
Conversation and Coffee
More conversation to come in May!
The Reconciling in Christ (RIC) Task Force invites you to an informal discussion before worship. RIC Task Force members and a Pastor will be present to listen, answer your questions, discuss shared values and review the Reconciling Works process. We welcome all to this conversation regardless of where you are in the process. Let’s talk!
January 2019 update from the RIC Task Force
…Good Shepherd is currently in step 6 of an 11 step process. This step is focused on providing educational opportunities for congregation discussion…
Click here to read the complete update
Reconciling in Christ
Good Shepherd’s Reconciling in Christ (RIC) Task Force is exploring to what degree our congregation extends a welcome and a message of belonging to people of all races, socio-economic circumstances, sexual orientations, gender identities and expressions, political affiliations, and levels of belief or doubt.
Unfortunately, these groups continue to experience exclusion and harm. Even churches that declare “All are welcome” often demonstrate to these societally marginalized groups that the welcome does not include them. For this reason, the invitation must specifically mention such groups. Many of our new and longstanding members speak of the welcome they felt when first walking through our doors and how that impacted their decision to make Good Shepherd their church home. This task force is the next step in our congregation’s commitment to hospitality for all people.
The RIC Task Force has been recognized by the Good Shepherd Board and has collaborated with Good Shepherd’s Leadership Team, conducting over 50 conversations with church members and leaders about deepening and expanding our public welcome. Feedback has been positive; expressing a desire to walk this journey together as we learn more about who we are. Engaging in a welcoming process will deepen the faith life of Good Shepherd.
The process Good Shepherd’s RIC Task Force is following for gracefully engaging ELCA congregations comes from Reconciling Works, a Lutheran organization that has been doing this work since 1974.
Connect with the RIC Task Force
1. Syrenne McNulty – Madison 10:00
2. Bjorn Hanson – Madison
3. Katie Wagner – Verona
4. Sarah Key – Verona Deep
5. Ellen Franzone – Madison 8:30
6. Diane Kohrs – Verona Deep
7. Guy Schroeder – Verona 10:30
8. Shannon Kunstman – Verona Deep
9. Tom Golden – All
Sample Affirmation Statements
Within the next 6-12 months, the Reconciling Works process will help us to discern if we should adopt a welcome statement something like the following:
“ We welcome all who are seeking God’s love and grace. We welcome all because God welcomes all, regardless of race or culture, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, or relationship status. We welcome all without regard to addictions, physical or mental health, imprisonment, socio-economic circumstances, or anything that too often divides us. Our unity is in Christ.”
To inspire us and provide examples as templates or guides, Reconciling Works has made available the following real affirmations from congregations around North America. These statements can be utilized as we work together to write an affirmation that proclaims Good Shepherd’s commitment to our community’s welcome.
Read Sample Affirmation Statements Here
The realities of the gay lifestyle
Published by Christians Talk
Guide to Terminology
The words we use to talk about lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people and issues can have a powerful impact on our conversations. The right words can help open people’s hearts and minds, while others can create distance or confusion. Designed for those who want to support LGBT Americans but often face an array of confusing terminology and language, this short guide offers an overview of essential vocabulary, terms to avoid, and a few key messages for talking about various issues.
Click to read “An Ally’s Guide to Terminology”